If my partner cheated on me, it would be over, and beyond repair. But if people continue with each other i think it would be véry hard to come back from that breach of trust. when it comes to lesbian relationships, one of the top rules in a lesbian relationship is that there are no gender definitions. Just because i work outside of the home and my partner works inside the home, doesnt mean that i am suddenly the man in the relationship. no one is a good partner if theyre stressed out and unhappy. Eat right, exercise, do yoga, take alone time when you need it. The better you feel about yourself, the more youre going to be able to give to your relationship. ask your partner how their genitals like to be touched and how you can validate their gender identity in the bedroom. Meeting potential partners is a challenging and anxiety-inducing task. For lesbians, it can often be more difficult to find a partner due to uncertainty about the other persons sexuality. trust is built when our partners have the opportunity to let us down or hurt us but do not. And in order for them to pass the test and build that trust, we must make ourselves vulnerable to. Dealing with exes can be difficult, especially if they are your partners. If youre struggling to cope with your partners friendship with an ex, talk to your partner about it. You must trust your partner, because you have no other option if you want to have a happy and successful relationship. No one can control your partner and you have to let jealousy go. Having some control is not a bad thing, yet trying to control somebody for things over which you have no control, is problematic.