lesbians are not attracted to men (autotuneiesustwitter) stop erasing bi, pan, and lesbian identities with your st takes. i came out as a lesbian over a decade ago, and my dykehood has shaped much of my life i worked at the lgbt office in college. Lesbian unexpectedly got attracted to a man storytime by lesbian couple carla and nic richellewe upload every monday & wednesday at 6pm centralsubscr. im also a straight man attracted to a couple of lesbians in my life. Its not because i think theyre hitting on me, but rather their personalities. Want to avoid embarrassing misunderstandings? Learn how to tell if a lesbian is attracted to you. If youve been spending a lot of time chatting with a female friend who happens to be a lesbian, you might be wondering if shes seeing you through friendship eyes, or whether she has feelings which run a little deeper. Im a lesbian whos recently found herself crushing on a man. Does this mean anything? Well, ive known a couple of lesbians who found themselves getting attracted to men right around the time they were seriously considering whether or not they wanted to have children of their own. there is a lesbian girl that i met a while ago and we were drinking at a club and we started to dance. We got really close and started like holding hands (interlocked fingers). It was kind of intimate and we half kissed at the end of the night. like sexually attracted to guys i dont really think so , but you can notice if a man is good looking or handsome but i wouldnt call that attracted to guys. If your attracted to men to the point where you want to sleep with them or date them then you are probably not lesbian. julie bindel the unmasking of two fake lesbian bloggers has shown that heterosexual men are deeply fascinated and wildly confused by gay women. its indeed possible for a lesbian woman to fall in love with a man, however at that time they wouldnt be a lesbian anymore. That would change to bisexual, or even straight, depending on the circumstances. If youre interested in her, dont be afraid to express your feelings.