Some lesbians tend to want to hide the fact that they are indeed female by hiding their bust area or wearing clothes to minimize it. A lesbian may also stare at you longer than usual and lick her lips while she is talking to you. She may also be a bit too close for comfort and in your personal space. one of the early signs of lesbianism is listening to female musicians all the time while your age mates are obsessed with male musicians. You may find yourself comparing two female artists and picking a favorite based on their looks and their voices. although you dont need to have kissed someone or had sex to know if you are a lesbian or not, if you have and you liked it, thats a positive sign that you might be a lesbian. It is especially a good sign if when youre kissing you feel a desire to go further than just kissing. over a period of a few months, the bbc spoke to dozens of young lesbians in a country where homosexuality is illegal. Another sign that you have a lesbian wife can be seen by the company she keeps. Does she have one, two, or more lesbian friends in her circle? If this is the case, then birds of the feather flock together. If you identify as gay, you may feel sexual and romantic attraction to someone of the same gender identity. Some lesbians reclaimed this symbol as gay men reclaimed the pink triangle. The lavender rhinoceros symbol was seen on signs, pins, and t-shirts at the boston pride parade later in 1974, and a life-sized papier-mâché lavender rhinoceros was part of the parade. my love of xena, solid colored deep vs, and lisa loeb may have hinted at something beneath the surface, but it didnt mean i was a lesbian nor did it mean i was anything else, for that matter. The only valid sign was 6, and even that doesnt perfectly define how we identify ourselves.